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Virgo Monthly ArchivesMonth
MonthNovember 2010
There’s a right way and a wrong way of doing something but what is right and what it wrong. Often depending on what side of an argument you’re on it’s entirely subjective. In November you’re experiencing emotional dichotomy – you both feel at once certain and uncertain, confident and insecure, important and invisible. What is it about an existing problem that you can’t make up your mind about, especially you who usually is Mr/Ms Fixit and holds all the solutions for life with your intelligent insight. The only answer is it must be an issue close to home and not an external one that has you in such a state of flux. You rely a lot more than people realize on those closest to you, especially your family and any doubts or disappointment in them can impact greatly on your confidence and self-belief. You take great care of everyone else and if they let you down or undermine you it’s untenable and inoperable for you and if this is the case, then there’s every chance that you feeling rather disillusioned with life. Many Virgo’s however are putting down roots and establishing a new home or taking other steps to cement your sense of belonging and to enhance an existing relationship as you want to build trust in your family life and foundations. Yet there are “ego” battles going on with your nearest and dearest and sadly for some Virgo’s these ego battles will require outside help to resolve them. Jupiter traversing your partnerships sector until the end of January should be a happy energy and bring relationships closer (all warm and fuzzy) although by the same token, it is also during these transits that relationships that are not working end. You want you home life to be “ideal” and if it’s not you’re prepared to close that chapter but with Jupiter in the mix, this would be simply to move onto a happier, more honest and more understanding relationship. Your key relationships are paramount and all consuming this month, one way or another. For those Virgo’s involved in legal disputes they will be family related and can be dealt with more successfully during this period so long as you stay balanced - otherwise a disagreement will end in carnage. ^ TOP October 2010
A surprising number of Virgo’s undertake some kind of external “self help” ranging from alternative medicines/therapy to weekly visits to the psychologist. You’re perfectionists and want to be the very best you can and if you’re aware that something is “not right” you do what you have to do to fix it. So what happens if it’s something that is seemingly out of your control; something that a visit to a professional can’t help other than the bailiff knocking on your door? You are worried about your finances now. You’ve either undertaken a big expenditure recently (big ticket item stuff) or your income has dropped off, or your expenditures are going through the roof. Whatever the drain, you are worried and just like the self fulfilling prophecy the more you fret, the more you will be reticent to take necessary steps to plug the hole or rectify the situation. Some Virgo’s have a deep seated idea of being taken care of by someone else and have never quite separated from the skirt strings AND purse strings and if this is the case, then you do need help. Why? Because there may not always be someone there to help you and it’s a self destructive, independence breaking loop that you want to get out of if you can. There are other Virgo’s who need to keep displaying their worth and desirability by spending money on others and/or themselves. If you not a complicated Virgo, you could be flush or broke, it doesn’t matter because no-one will know anyway. You are zipping around looking prosperous and at peace and oh so in control and verbose. All of you are actually. As someone once said “If you want to feel rich, just count the things you have that money can't buy” and there’s no doubting that you’re loved up right - so you’re rich! ^ TOP September 2010
That is if you can get through September which is rather hairy especially in the first couple of weeks and for some it really is a make or break time. There is a bête noir in your world, could be your spouse, enemy, boss or relative but they will be a thorn in your side this month and you genuinely feel that they are thwarting your freedom or holding you back somehow. It may just be a matter of who has control - you or another – (you are always happier when you are running the show) or it may be a deeper problem. But on the whole, if you emerge happy and united from the end of September onwards on a whole raft of levels you will enjoy improved relations in business, marriage, and your closest connections. In fact it may be through your partner that you receive the most surprising and stunning opportunities and this may call for a relocation or change of residence. Alternatively you just might decide this month to sell and move, upgrade, accept a job overseas or simply travel. You may also be contemplating restructuring your working life entirely so that you wind back and operate from home instead. The third week in particular is sensational for business/commercial breakthroughs. ^ TOP August 2010
However there is a lot of activity swirling around you this month and its gaining momentum. You are in the eye of the storm, at the epicenter, the vortex but you are not in danger. You didn’t cause this one directly but you are affected in some way and the situation begs the question: are you going to just look on, get involved and assist or condemn? I don’t think believe that the developments that are happening in your world can be ignored as they do overlap in certain areas of your life and therefore will affect you either directly or indirectly – at the very least to some extent. They could be business, personal or family issues and a lot of what is happening is going on behind the scenes so that you don’t really have the entire picture. If you intervene and use your finer skills to attempt to remedy the situation you will gain respect and future trust from all the players but if you play an underhanded game you will be exposed not necessarily now, but down the track. Siblings could be involved and you may have to play a waiting game until the third week before any breakthroughs occur. This month there is also the odd scenario of friends becoming antagonists and foes become allies and you will find that you are able to relate more to some folk to whom you have been previously detached. Likewise relationships will be taken to the next step by the end of the month or begin to unravel. ^ TOP July 2010
I doubt that you have really enjoyed the last couple of years even if you protest like mad to the contrary. Saturn in your sign is no cakewalk and you’re pretty relieved that it’s heading out of Virgo.
Even though it was hard you have sorted out who you are and who you want to be so there has been a bit of remodeling and in some cases a total makeover. You are certainly more mature now and will enjoy the freedom to express yourself again, and with more profound things to say!
You’ve been keeping a pretty low profile emotionally and now you are opening the doors to your heart again and hanging out a sign saying For Lease (the For Sale part comes later…). Mars is still making you feisty and grumpy – just about everything is exasperating you even if you do plaster on a happy face throughout.
This month for one reason or another (good or bad) you will be under a cosmic high beam and even though you’ve hankered for this for a while, now that it’s happened you are not sure how to feel. The message from SB is this: this is a month of compromise and although you don’t necessarily agree with all the theories and assumptions that are being put to you, play smart enough to know that every now and then you need to give and take – “compromise”.
Look to Virgoan ex PM Kevin Rudd who would probably love to get even and seek revenge - but is smart enough to go with the flow - as an example of how you should act. This will earn you more admiration from others and they will place their faith in you in the future so you will gain more. That way you will minimize your frustrations about “what if”, as opposed to the reality of your current situation.
Strangely in this way, allowing others to follow their goals and aspirations guarantees you get what you want by default.
Towards the end of the month Saturn will enter your 2nd house which begins a transit (more of this shortly in another posting) where you find that everything you’ve strived and fought for over the past couple of years doesn’t really give you any real buzz or validation anymore – so not much point fighting over it now anyway!
You’ll be striving for new goals and different values to the ones you have now.
^ TOP June 2010
I’m not sure that the first word (or even the 20th one) that anyone would ever useto describe their Virgo pal would be “spontaneous” – because that sounds way too much like “unstructured” or “unplanned” which is so NOT a Virgo who is known as the zodiacs perfectionist.
However you may soon be doing spur of the moment things like you never have before and throw caution to the wind. Why? Well if you really need a reason (or excuse) blame it on Uranus because for a substantial part of this decade you will be acting so un-Virgo-like. Yes your intimates, friends and family will be gob-smacked by some of your “spontaneous” actions.
It’s all to do with your pressing need for freedom and excitement, especially within your intimate relationships – think Charlie from Two and a Half Men (or a female equivalent) to give you an idea of what lines I’m thinking along!
There is no prize for carrying on like a valiant little trooper when your own desires and needs are irrelevant and you’re just another “brick in the wall” or a cog in the machine. You are in charge of your own happiness and you genuinely now get and understand that fact, probably for the first time.
No, you are not possessed and will not require an exorcism – most of you will be able to refrain from acting out too much or doing anything overly drastic. All Virgos will however realize the brevity of life and how important it is to live each day as it comes – carpe diem. ^ TOP May 2010
Like Leo you have the travel bug and are desperate to get away from it all or more accurately instill some excitement and adventure into your life. You’ve been feeling a tad flat and experiencing new sights and sounds will give you a new impetus and a fresh outlook.
At any rate you need a break from recent events to provide you with a bit of perspective and I see you being given the opportunity (or making it) to do just that. Your partner might be instrumental in instigating a holiday or tie it in with business, it will be a long journey and to foreign climes.
You need to let off some emotional steam, or finally let go of some connection that is passed its use-by date. There is a lot of accumulative strain that you need to unwind from and secretly you are craving freedom but that’s not going to marry to well if you have a partner – how will you swing that one without ruffling some feathers?
You are feeling quite strong and emotionally more intelligent that you were a number of years back and you can survive life not matter what transpires, of that you are very confident.
So, your partner (if you have one) had best take heed because you are not going to be the retiring and modest soul that others have gotten used to or expect you to be. No, you could very likely stage a mini revolution and think “what the hell” we only have one shot at life and do something or behave in a way that will leave everyone gob smacked.
You will have no qualms about rocking the boat and may just say exactly what you are feeling for a change – to hell with the consequences. Maintaining the status quo is one thing, but right now you need to be real and honest.
They can either like it or lump it.
^ TOP April 2010
I’ve been broaching a delicate area in Virgo’s lives for a couple of weeks, the area of close relationships. A lot of Virgo partners would be horrified if they knew the kind of fantasies that float through their Virgo partner’s minds at just about every opportunity but for the whole they remain (at least on the surface) the most stable, abstemious and productive of folk.
Don’t worry, for all those who are in happydom ALL IS WELL, au contraire they might even get happier, however those whose relationships have been more of an effort than a joy and have been genuinely unhappy for a while will find that this month could well be the decider and the ensuing break will not be a rehearsal.
If your living arrangements seem out of sync this will happen now as part of Saturn’s cleaning out process in its last hurrah in Virgo. There are some unpleasant and shall we say “maturing” lessons being still being metered out to some Virgos but it will be all for the best and provide an opportunity for you to recreate your life on a scale more suited to you.
You may alternatively be jettisoning another form of commitment, a business project for example but this will make way for a more solid and successful enterprise to follow.
A hint: property related connections/opportunities can provide you with the key to great freedom or provide the means for change.
^ TOP March 2010
How are you faring? How have your relationships been over the past few months? Is your outlook on love and commitment the same as it’s always been or have you kept changing the goalposts to fit in with reality? What are you core beliefs about what you need and what you want?
I think you may be driving yourself a little crazy at the moment. You are trying to work out if you are naïve, unreasonable, obsessed or if this current thinking is all in your imagination.
Whatever you are thinking, the decisions you make now will affect how you deal with your partner(s). If you are single someone you meet has the potential to change your life irrevocably and for the better.
If you are in a partnership and that partnership is not causing you happiness, March is the month that could give you the impetus to rework it for the better. You will be able to broach the unthinkable or discuss the unmentionable and could find yourself acting in a very loving and cooperative manner.
In a typical Virgoan theme, it’s not about what you want rather you are very keen to make things work and will be quite the romantic.
Don’t be sidetracked by the ongoing struggles you’ve been facing, try to focus instead on feeding your emotional life and dealing with the big questions you have over your life and future together.
Share, share and share your feelings with your partner; two people have a better chance at solving a problem than just one.
^ TOP Feb 2010
This months forecast is a closer look at Pluto in Capricorn. Pluto in 2010 will be transiting your 5th house of children, love and romance and a child or a love interest could enter your life at this time that forever changes you! You will either have a very emotional and intense love affair with your existing partner or alternatively some Virgos will experience an intense love affair but be aware that under this cycle this will not lead to a permanent union. Any love affairs will be passionate and transforming, but you may have difficulty in simply enjoying and having fun with your lover as your need to dominate may backfire on you. Take great care not to become too overbearing with partners and especially with your children as this could lead to dissatisfaction within the relationships. Others will view your behaviour as self-absorbed, but rather you are becoming a The up side is that negative attitudes (and people) relating to your love life will be eliminated so that you can manifest a deeper love connection to your spouse and kids as well. You’ll take great joy in your life now and there is no room for any low spirits under Pluto’s transit through this house. Word of warning: steer clear of speculative ventures and gambling as there is a danger of losing everything and if you manage to do this you could increase you capital considerably. ^ TOP |
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